Tuesday, December 30, 2008

But Life is Just a Party and Parties Weren't Meant 2 Last

This was at a party on New Year's Eve last year. I hope to spend time with these two this year as well.

Since I'm not sure if I'll have time to blog tomorrow, I'm just going to do my New Year's Eve post tonight. Last year at this time I was at the beginning of a short-lived relationship with that one guy. He was a conquest guy and the thing about conquest guys, is that they definitely know how to woo a woman, they just tend to get bored and move on in a couple of months is all. True to that form, that one guy took me to Chicago the weekend before New Year's Eve where we ate sushi and played around in Wrigleyville on Saturday night and then went to a Bear's game on Sunday. Monday was New Year's Eve and we had a great time. Of course, I could never keep up that kind of pace, so it's just as well we're not dating anymore, because I'd probably be on some kind of life support after a year of that.

This year ends with me being single again, and though I'm ever hopeful that I'll meet someone I can have a long-term, healthy relationship with, I know I'd much rather be single than in an unhealthy relationship with someone who isn't right for me. So, instead of bemoaning the absence of something, I'm all for celebrating what I do have...And I feel like I have a lot to celebrate. My girls are great and we're all healthy and we have a warm home and I have a job with great benefits and I have a wonderful extended family and the craziest, funnest friends a girl could ask for.

The girls are at their dad's house and I don't have to work on New Year's day, so my plan for celebrating all of that tomorrow night looks like this: I'll get home from work around five, check out what I have and go to a store if I need something else, then make some fun foods. Right now I think I'll make a quiche and I have some potstickers in the freezer I'll heat up and make a funky sauce for them, and head over to my friend's house with the food and some beer around seven. We're all trying to do this as affordably as possible, hence the potluck and BYOB. We'll stay there for a while and maybe do some karaoke finally.

I have a couple of girlfriends who have to work the next day, so they were thinking about going out for a nice dinner and some wine, and I'll try to meet them for a drink somewhere before they call it an early night.

Around ten, we'll for sure go downtown. My crazy, fun friends are planning on hitting up the DJ'ed dance party at the Picador and the kids from the potluck party will be heading to the Dublin. Since my friend Alix is back visiting from Norway, I will try to find her somewhere as well. The nice thing about being single, is I don't have to worry about what anyone else does or doesn't want to do. I can go from one thing to the next or go home early or whatever. Don't think I'm not celebrating that kind of freedom tomorrow night either, because I am.

Whew! Yeah, I hope I make it home alive. I figure, I ended and began last year with a bang, and it went pretty well for me, I may as well follow that same plan for this year too.


jeci said...

Happy New Year to you and your girls! I love your attitude and think you'll be rewarded for it! Here's to an awesome 2009!!!

Churlita said...


Thanks. You too. Hopefully, this year we'll have all the money we need and no bad flooding.

laura b. said...

You do have so much going for you...a man and a healthy relationship would simply be icing on the already delicious cake. And the coolest thing is, you know that!

Happy New Year, Churlita.

Remiman said...

Have a great New year's eve celebration. I hope it portends a great year to come.
I'll most likely miss the ball drop and be perusing the inside of my eyelids by midnight.

dmarks said...

Flood-free and fine in 2009!

Tara said...

Sounds like a perfect plan. And you make an excellent point - it's better to be single than in an unhealthy relationship. I'm grateful that I am single and independent.

Have a very happy new year!!

Susan said...

I hope you have a very Happy New Year!

Not Fainthearted said...

Sounds like a wonderful night. Enjoy it! (and watch out for the knuckleheads on the roads)

Happy 2009!!!

NoRegrets said...

Sounds like a wonderful plan. Happy daze!

booda baby said...

By my calculations, you're almost home, almost cooking, almost getting ready to go out and celebrate the beeeeoooooteous life you've got and usher in a whole new year of the shit.

It's going to be a really really good one.

Chance said...

Happy new year to the most attractive and rockin' reader my blog has ever had! Here's to new and better things for us all.