tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post2332293873016264186..comments2024-01-21T16:13:37.507-06:00Comments on Churlish Figure: It Would Kill You Just to Try and Be a Nicer GuyChurlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00735862031383588332noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-40770731379955773092007-04-11T22:16:00.000-05:002007-04-11T22:16:00.000-05:00Jeci,Thanks for lurking, delurking and thanks for ...Jeci,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for lurking, delurking and thanks for the comment.<BR/><BR/>I love your blog and will link you as soon as I get a second.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-80860200632268854682007-04-11T22:00:00.000-05:002007-04-11T22:00:00.000-05:00I'm (finally) delurking just to say thank you for ...I'm (finally) delurking just to say thank you for sharing. It's not easy to talk about these things even though it's so obvious to anyone with a clue who's the jerk. Your girls are lucky to have you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-46018819988995364522007-04-11T15:31:00.000-05:002007-04-11T15:31:00.000-05:00Oh yeah. I forgot you were such a big Aimee Mann f...Oh yeah. I forgot you were such a big Aimee Mann fan. I aim to please, here.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-15182245374708473512007-04-11T12:54:00.000-05:002007-04-11T12:54:00.000-05:00You have no idea how happy it made me to see your ...You have no idea how happy it made me to see your headline was an Aimee Mann reference.<BR/><BR/>It was awesome.<BR/><BR/>But that's just what you are.TLBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00528402228927046821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-85129709474637796392007-04-10T22:20:00.000-05:002007-04-10T22:20:00.000-05:00Evil-E,Thanks. Getting out isn't always that easy,...Evil-E,<BR/><BR/>Thanks. Getting out isn't always that easy, especially when you're broke and have kids. <BR/><BR/>Yeah, I agree with your take on wife beaters. (the people, not the tank tops)<BR/><BR/>Dmarks,<BR/><BR/>Thanks. Me too.<BR/><BR/>Fringes,<BR/><BR/>I always say that people think I'm younger than I am, because I'm really immature and have bad skin.<BR/><BR/>Plain Jane,<BR/><BR/>For me, it was mostly a waiting game. I had to wait until my oldest daughter was almost in kindergarten, so I could get a full-time day job, and only part-time daycare for her and full-time for my youngest. My ex has never really helped financially.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-38996711918970380132007-04-10T21:48:00.000-05:002007-04-10T21:48:00.000-05:00Been there. Done that. Let's hear more about how...Been there. Done that. <BR/><BR/>Let's hear more about how you actually got out.<BR/><BR/>Good for you. I know how terrifying it is.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-52720277452052256572007-04-10T19:32:00.000-05:002007-04-10T19:32:00.000-05:00You wrote about this very well. It didn't seem at ...You wrote about this very well. It didn't seem at all like a Lifetime for Women movie. I had no idea you were so close to my age. You seem so young! I mean, we're both still young...oh, forget it. I thought you were in your mid-30s. Thanks for sharing...fringeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10890618644042885035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-16677799586525857152007-04-10T18:53:00.000-05:002007-04-10T18:53:00.000-05:00Evil-E said what I wanted to say. I'm glad for you...Evil-E said what I wanted to say. I'm glad for you and yours that this is now long in the past, too.dmarkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07269773990064736457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-67676256551313737202007-04-10T17:31:00.000-05:002007-04-10T17:31:00.000-05:00Not all posts need to be funny, once in a while it...Not all posts need to be funny, once in a while it is good to let some of the real stuff....<BR/><BR/>I do not "know" you all that well, but I have much respect for you. Unlike some girls I do know, you recognized the situation and managed out it before it got too ugly. <BR/><BR/>I hate wife-beaters...they need to be put down in a harsh and unjudicious manner.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-36857955799642007432007-04-10T15:02:00.000-05:002007-04-10T15:02:00.000-05:00Mrs Mogul,She does look good still. No fair.ILYITF...Mrs Mogul,<BR/><BR/>She does look good still. No fair.<BR/><BR/>ILYITF,<BR/><BR/>I like Libra and White Noise. I stopped reading Mao after I got that writers were the new terrorists, but he wouldn't stop beating me over the head with it.<BR/><BR/>Bice,<BR/><BR/>Thanks, but I bet if I went over to Meredeith Baxter's blog I'd see that you wrote that she was hotter than me in her comments.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-8498910696078351222007-04-10T14:41:00.000-05:002007-04-10T14:41:00.000-05:00I'm glad you survived 1996, the year and the post....I'm glad you survived 1996, the year and the post. And for what it's worth... you're way hotter than Meredith Baxter.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-34045807241927631832007-04-10T14:01:00.000-05:002007-04-10T14:01:00.000-05:00That is so scary. The worst part is the "thought y...That is so scary. The worst part is the "thought you would tell people about his bad behavior" part. My ex-roommate was like that, "You aren't going to tell people that I broke down your door at 3am in a drunken rage, right? Something like that would really hurt my reputation at work!" <BR/><BR/>I'm glad you're out of that. <BR/><BR/>Also, I love Don Delillo but mostly just because of 'White Noise'. I can't get through anything else of his. I read some of his Mao II Mao or whatever and was literally bored to tears.nohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08687258771533516073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-49919451581434835322007-04-10T11:46:00.000-05:002007-04-10T11:46:00.000-05:00Thanks for sharing! Aimee mann I remember her! She...Thanks for sharing! Aimee mann I remember her! She still looks the same after all these years.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-88260281715964775632007-04-10T10:54:00.000-05:002007-04-10T10:54:00.000-05:00Sarah,Yeah. You were a great friend, what are you ...Sarah,<BR/><BR/>Yeah. You were a great friend, what are you talking about? And People was my escapism for a while there.<BR/><BR/>If I wasn't so sick last night, I would have remembered that LA used to come over on Sundays and watch X-Files with me.<BR/><BR/>Rel,<BR/><BR/>Me too.<BR/><BR/>LA,<BR/><BR/>How funny. I totally remember Liz dancing on the tables at the Stereolab show.<BR/><BR/>I also remember seeing tons of movies with you when Steve worked at the theaters back then.<BR/><BR/>I bet Meredith Baxter can hold her own there. I'd actually like to see/hear that.<BR/><BR/>margaret,<BR/><BR/>That's probably why I'm so happy to get older. I wouldn't put up with any of that crap again.<BR/><BR/>Not Faint Hearted,<BR/><BR/>Thanks.<BR/><BR/>Booda Baby,<BR/><BR/>What they get is control in the short run. They don't think far enough ahead to realize that they lose all that control in the long run.<BR/><BR/>Brando,<BR/><BR/>Thanks. It's good to be away from it.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-33230930695372264212007-04-10T09:05:00.000-05:002007-04-10T09:05:00.000-05:00That sounds terrible, C. I am glad you got out. I ...That sounds terrible, C. I am glad you got out. I can't even imagine how awful that must have been.Brandohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10484284471046027179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-39675605234407070772007-04-10T08:47:00.000-05:002007-04-10T08:47:00.000-05:00Where do those men learn that shit? Really, where...Where do those men learn that shit? Really, where? And what do they get out of it? I'm so glad he said something that would penetrate and liberate and all that stuff. It's the greatest thing, too, that whatever toll a life with him took, it's way back there. In the past.booda babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09424036488795599663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-89697923713450094702007-04-10T08:16:00.000-05:002007-04-10T08:16:00.000-05:00I agree. What a long way you've come. Congratulati...I agree. What a long way you've come. Congratulations! I admire your courage and ability to get out, even if, in hindsight, you think you should have done it sooner, at least you didn't wait longer! Talk about turning your life around. Rock on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-11874476587690711752007-04-10T08:06:00.000-05:002007-04-10T08:06:00.000-05:00TGI not 1996 or 1997! you've come a long way, a lo...TGI not 1996 or 1997! you've come a long way, a lot to be proud ofMargarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11101957030354776158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-57085540385176628542007-04-10T08:03:00.000-05:002007-04-10T08:03:00.000-05:00Oh man. I remember this year. Maybe I don't real...Oh man. I remember this year. Maybe I don't really have early onset Alzheimers. I was also at the Streolab concert. Wasn't that the concert that Liz danced on the tables? Oh wait, that was every concert. Duh!<BR/>Meredith Baxter couldn't give your character the depth....and probably couldn't belch like you either.<BR/>Glad that '96-'97 is in the rearview. You are such a strong woman!LAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08775588170333960964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-59081338780928023402007-04-10T03:01:00.000-05:002007-04-10T03:01:00.000-05:00Churlita,I'm glad you've moved on!relChurlita,<BR/>I'm glad you've moved on!<BR/>relrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09030572981830789370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35934196.post-91312891695495238032007-04-10T00:16:00.000-05:002007-04-10T00:16:00.000-05:00Wow, I remember that...you were so brave and stron...Wow, I remember that...you were so brave and strong to take the girls and stand up for yourself! I wish I wasn't so damn depressed myself at that time so I could have been a better friend to you! Damn selfishness, maybe you could've left sooner...<BR/><BR/>BUT: One thing I do have to add to the "Books" section of that year-in-review post is People magazine. Girl, you knew EVERYTHING that was going on in Hollywood during that time.Poptarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815454573423784661noreply@blogger.com